Within yoga there are 8 limbs. The first limb is called Yama
meaning ethical guidelines to live by. Within Yama there are categories the
first being Ahimsa. Ahimsa means non-violence. The practice of non-violence
does not only mean not participating in nonviolent acts and being passive but
means engaging in positive acts which reduce violence. To participate in a
positive way people must be able to self-reflect. Often when someone confronts another person
about a problem the recipient becomes defensive begins interrupting and listing
all the reasons why the accusation is incorrect. The ego takes over and the
recipient does not listen long enough to evaluate understand respond
appropriately to the situation
In the Bible Christ disciples are with him at the last
supper when Christ tells them one of them is going to betray him. This is a
very accusatory statement. Instead of the disciples getting offended and
telling Jesus all the reasons they are positive they will not betray him and
telling him they are certain he is wrong if he thinks it is them that are the
betrayer, they respond with a question “Lord is it I?” They opened a door of
communication willing to listen understand. They understood people make
mistakes and did not count themselves out as an individual who is above making
mistakes and they did not immediately become offended and defensive.
The more time and effort you put into making yourself a
better person the more you gain confidence in yourself while simultaneously
learning there is always room for improvement to reach limitless potential. When
this attitude becomes part of who you are you begin to have more understanding
for others around you. A good barometer to see how you are doing is to notice
how you are viewing other because this is a reflection of how you are viewing
and judging yourself. As you adapt this way of life and continue to practice self-reflection
you will be able to follow the example of the apostles and when someone makes a
statement instead of becoming offended you will be able to say Is it I. This
way of thinking allows you to fill your heart with understanding, keep open
gates of communication, all the while remaining nonviolent, living the
principle of Ahimsa.


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